The mourners wear hoods or head wraps of unbleached muslin. When the procession stops to change pallbearers, the hooded mourners line up on the road in front of the coffin. 

That's a live chicken sitting on top of the black, hand-carved wooden coffin. 

Here, family members walk in front of the coffin in straw slippers and a cane, walking heel-toe-heel-toe. One carries a red clay jar. WHat's inside? I don't know. 

On our way to the market today, a funeral procession passed by. These are some of the gifts for the one who passed on to take with him to the afterlife: a stove, a washing machine, a sofa, and even a car, all made of paper. The wreaths are also made of colorful paper. Huge paper flower poles are carried on sticks to the burial site.  

SpOts

I know all about spots. The Chinese call it "pifu bing" which means "skin sick." I get "pifu bing" from time to time from playing with other little dogs who haven't had their innoculations. That's why Lady doesn't like me to play with them. Sometimes I come home home from my vacations at friends' homes and I've picked up spots. Lady is NOT happy when I come home with pifu bing, because it takes months and vets trips to clear up. Well, it wasn't me this time who ended up with spots! It was LADY! She came home last Tuesday night after eating a big dinner at a friend's home and started scratching like crazy! She took a shower, changed clothes and took itch medicine and still woke me up all night long. Good grief! She was up at 3:00 AM taking more itch medicine, and putting on cream. She always put cream on my spots as well. The next morning, Lady had two classes but came home right after that. Poor Lady was miserable, and started shedding her clothes. She wouldn't let me lick her. By Thursday morning, Lady woke up with fat lips, puffy eyes, and red blotches all over her face. When she looked in the mirror, she cried. I sure didn't want to be the one to tell her what she looked like! But, I stuck by her anyway. Lady stayed home from school and took more medicine. Friday, our friend, Betty's mom, took Lady to the Number One hospital in our city to see the skin doctor. In China, the people go to the hospital to see the doctors. First, you go to a window and pay about 35 cents to see the doctor, and get a little blue notebook. Then, you go to the floor where the doctor you want see has an office. When they found the room, several different humans and children were already in there telling the doctor their problems. Lady waited. Finally the doctor looked at her spots. All the other people in the room looked at her spots too, and listened in on the conversation. The doctor told her the same thing a nurse friend, and another American doctor had suspected, that she had an allergic reaction to either something she ate or touched. The doctor wrote a prescription, and wrote in Lady's little blue book. She told Lady to come back on Monday after having three days of medicine. Lady and Judy went downstairs to pay for the medicine. It cost $27 for all the medicine. Then, they went to the Pharmacy in the hospital to fill the prescriptions. They gave Lady a bag of drugs. All the boxes had English and Chinese on them, so Lady could read what she was taking. Two boxes had vials fo vitamins in them. Judy took Lady into a room crowded with chairs and beds. Long metal poles had hooks on them and were all holding IV bottles. Humans of all ages and ailments were hooked up on IV drips in the one large room. Most of the patients had a family member or friend with them. Some humans just came in and got an injection and left. Lady found a white wooden chair with stained, faded pink cushions, and sat down. The doctors mixed up her drugs according to the prescription, and brought it to Lady. They hung two bottles high on the metal pole. Many people stared at Lady as they don't often see white humans. A nurse came and inserted a clean needle into the back of Lady's hand. There she sat for over three hours as the medicine slowly dripped into her veins. In China, this is the most common way to receive medicine. And this is why Lady never likes to tell her friends when she is sick. The first thing they say is, "you need to go to the hospital and get an injection!" But what they mean is, she needs an IV drip. It is the Chinese way. Little children often have the IV into their head. Some patients lay on the beds, but no one changes the sheets when they leave. China does the best she can with so many people to take care of. As soon as one gets up, another takes his place. And so it goes all day long.
The doctor gave Lady some zinc oxide to paint on her spots. She smelled and looked funny, but I didn't tell her. I didn't want to lick her anymore, either. Lady continued to have a really hard time getting any sleep. Poor Lady. I am sorry she is so miserable, but I really like having her home all day to scratch me. I tried my best to take care of her. I kept bringing her toys, and blankets.
On the third morning at the hospital, many friends came. They had heard the news because Lady had missed both English Corners. Chinese like to visit people when their sick, but Lady doesn't like people to see her sick, or blotchy. Our friend Belle got Lady out of that noisy, crowded room and into a room of her own with a bed and clean sheets! Finally Lady could stretch out. Her knees and back side didn't hurt as much when she came home after four hours on the IVs. Joe came and brought nectarines. Her students Doris and Gloria came and brought beautiful flowers. A students' mom and dad heard about it and brought four dozen eggs! Jenny also came to stay with Lady. But while Lady was on the drip, she broke out again all over her face and neck. Her eyes got all puffy again. Jenny said she would talk to the doctor the next day. After Lady got home, three more students came by with gifts! Frannie and Skye brought Lady's favorite Dove dark chocolate! Jade brought more flowers, and cleaned the floors for Lady. Little Girl's mom brought dinner. Lady let me have a sausage for being such a good companion.
Monday morning, Jenny took Lady back to the doctor. Lady had a good night last night, but broke out again while waiting her turn for the doctor. People crowded around to hear the conversation. They strained to get a look at Lady's rash. The doctor wanted Lady on IV drips for two more days, but Lady asked if she could please just have one injection. The doctor said the injection would take two days to work. Lady said, "please?" The doctor agreed. Lady asked for the drug the American doctor had recommended to help her stop itching. The doctor wrote the prescription. The people leaned in again to get a look at what the doctor was writing. So much for privacy. It doesn't exist here.
Jenny took Lady down to pay for the new medicine. Today, it only cost $7. After getting the pills and the injection, they went back to the large, crowded room with the poles. Lady insisted on seeing if the needle were new. The nurse was annoyed and fussy. Jenny apologized, but Lady knew it was most important that she have a new needle. She won't even let the vet use an old needle on me. Lady wanted the shot in her arm but the nurse refused and pointed to Lady's backside. All eyes in the room seemed to be on Lady. Lady asked Jenny to ask if she could go in a smaller room. The nurse refused and wanted Lady to sit on a white block of wood with steps on it, and pull down her pants. She held the shot and waited. The block was in clear view of everyone in the room. My Lady saw all the people looking at her and didn't want to show her white backside to them. She began to cry, and Jenny (the police officer) said somehting to the fussy nurse. Very quickly she herded Lady across the hall into a small room with another nurse. That nurse closed the door and Lady got her shot. She was very appreciative. Now the fussy nurse was nice!
Although the doctor said it would take two days for the shot to work, Lady stopped itching within a couple of hours, and has been pretty much scratching free! Katrina came over and we went on a very long walk! Lady still has a lot of blotches and red dots, but they are clearing up. She is so much more comfortable. She thinks it was a red fruit she ate that she had never had before. She had many dishes at Linda's, so she is not certain, but all week she has eaten her own food. She gave away the fruit that Joe brought, as she is not taking any chances! Now Lady knows how I feel when I have my spots and I am all itchy. I think she will be much more sympathetic next time. After all, I am just a little dog!

Happy Adoption Day!

Two years ago today, Lady brought me home to live with her. Because she does not know my birthday, we celebrate my adoption day with a party. My closest humans friends came, about 25 in all. Lady baked many treats, and planned some games. Before they could play the bone toss game, they had to give me a bone! The humans tried to guess my weight and my length. I am 37 inches long from the tip of my nose to the end of my tail. I weigh 9 kgs! Linda guessed correctly! Some of my guests brought me cards and gifts. I've alread begun to love the stuffing out of a doggie that Little Girl brought me. Man and Mom brought me sausages!! Lady saved them for later. I tasted so many treats. The kids all lined up and held a treat out for me to see who could get me to go to them. I ran straight for Betty but then ate the others' treats as well! When the adults played, I ran to Judy, Betty's mom. I love them because I stay with them sometimes!
I am so thankful to have such kind friends here. Lady is, too. Every day she tells God "thank you" for me (and her friends), and tells me that she loves me. I know. I can tell. And best I can, I tell Lady that I love her. I wag my tail, I lick her face, and I stick close to her side whenever she's in the house. I see that she gets exercise, and I make sure she wakes up early in the morning.
Below, you can see some photos from my party. I'm going to bed. After all, I am just a little dog and I need my rest!

Joe and Claude came, too! 

Lady made many treats for my party. We had garlic and cheese bites, peanut butter biscuits shaped like bones, banana biscotti, and cupcakes for the humans. My cake had beef baby food in it and beef jerky. Delicious. Lady got all the recipes off the internet. We also had carrots and dip because I love them. Of course we had peanuts and sunflower seeds.  

Lady was trying to take my picture with my delicious meat flavored cake, but Jeremiah wanted his picture made. He brought me a rubber toy. I like it because it makes noise and I can chew on it. 

Linda and Kaylee came, as well as my new friend, Anna, from Denmark. I am chewing a bone from the bone toss game. 

Jerry brought me cute gift. We just found out his wife is having twins! In China that is a double blessing. 

As the good host that I am, I enthusiastically greeted each of my guests. Somtimes I go stay with Belle for a vacation, so I really love her. 

I'm pooped! Everybody's gone home. Today is my Adoption Day. So many of my human friends came! We had English Corner in my home. I even received some cool gifts! 

Marley & Me

Have you read this book yet, Marley & Me? It's not about me! John Grogan tells the story of life with another Marley, a yellow Labrador retriever. The author states that his Marley is "the world's worst dog," but actually, Marley was a lot like me. And Lady tells me daily that I am a good boy, so he couldn't have been that bad. Lady just finished the book. I snuggled up against her on the bed or on the sofa as she read. She woke me up with her laughing, then sniffling, then laughing again, and her crying. I licked her tears. She hugged me and told me again and again how much she loved me. She considers me a gift from God. I like to hear the story.
One day, Lady was talking to God about being lonely living by herself here in China. She was new to the neighborhood and hadn't made any friends yet. She was just getting used to this new city. She didn't relish going home to an empty apartment. She missed her beloved Chelsea, a hyper doberman pinscher. She missed the companionship and the warm welcome she'd receive when she returned home. But she had a house and a yard in those days. Her apartment here was no place for a large dog, so she told God she'd like to have the closest thing, a black and tan dachshund. Lady had no idea how rare black and tan dachshunds were in this area.
About a week later, a friend called to tell her about a little dog who needed a home. Guess who? Lady asked her friend what kind of dog it was. When she found out it was a dachshund, she held her breath after asking what color. You guessed it! Black and tan! Lady knew it was the little dog for her, but she told them she would pray about it and call back. She thanked God for hearing her need and answering. She tried to contain her joy until she could actually meet the little dog and bring him home.
I belonged to Boy, and lived with him and his parents. House Helper also took care of me. After more than two years, Boy and his parents went back to the states for six months. Helper Girl took care of me. That's why I understand both English and Chinese. I missed my Boy. But he didn't return. Instead, Dad returned to pack up their belongings. They weren't coming back.
The first time I saw Lady, Helper Girl was taking me out to take care of business. Lady was walking up my stairwell. "You must be Marley," she said. She lowered her hand for me to sniff and lick. She tasted good. I let her scratch me behind my ears. I vigorously wagged my tail. After I returned from taking care of business, I came home to find all of my belongings packed up in a paper sack. What's going on? I knew somehting was up because for days my stuff kept disappearing, and Boy was not here. Now this. Soon, Lady had me in a taxi and off we went. She held me firmly and talked to me all the way. She told me the story. So this was my Lady.
After several hours, a bus ride, and another taxi ride, we arrived at my new home. I ran and sniffed every room in the place. I found my water dish. I found my toys. I was home.
It's been two years now.
The other Marley in the book was very big. I am small. He was yellow. I am black. He got into lots and lots of trouble. I get into my share, but every day, Lady tells me what a good boy I am. I think it is wishful thinking. I still shred my stuffed toys and leave the polyester fiberfill all over her floors. When she makes the bed, I unmake it. When she mops the floor, I decorate it with paw prints. I lift my leg on things I shouldn't. Still, she thinks I am wonderful.
Lady is happy to come home now because I always greet her enthusiastically. I keep her company. I introduce her to humans in the neighborhood. I make sure she gets daily exercise. I clean her face every morning. I am a daily reminder that God hears her cries and cares about her. I am a daily reminder that God knows right where she is and what she needs. I know this because she tells me.
While John Grogan's Marley and I have many differences, we are both fiercely loyal to our humans, and greatly loved. You can read about him in Grogan's book, and about me in my blog!

May Holiday

May 1 is International Labor Day. It is a national holiday in China, and begins a "golden week" in China where students are out of school and most workers have 7 days holiday. Trains, planes, buses, and cars are loaded with Chinese traveling to spots of interest or visiting family. Lady has the week off from school. We need to rest up from our vacations! Prices are higher during this time, and public transportation is SO crowded!
Now that I am back from my vacation I can post some photos from some of our Easter activities. We were very busy! Five friends came from GA to spend Easter with us. The visited all of Lady's classes and English Corners. The students asked them about Easter, so they told them the Story. We had a party at my house for children. We have one every Christmas and Easter for neighbors and Lady's friends. The children love to come to Lady's house for one of our parties. Some grown-ups came, too. Before Lady started explaining these holidays to them these children had no clue what they were all about. They didn't know that God loves them so much. But now, some of the children can answer Lady's questions about who Jesus is. They have been listening! We want them to know that Jesus loves them very much.
Next week is my Adoption Day Party! I will have been with Lady two years. She doesn't know when my birthday is, so we have a party on my Adoption Day, May 10. We invite my closest friends to come play with me and eat treats. I'll have Lady take some photos and post them for you. I can't believe it has been two years! I've been a busy little dog!

Each of the visitors took a group of Lady's students and shared with them the meaning of the holiday. They shared about their lives and their families. The students were so excited to get to talk with native speakers. Many had never heard the Story before.  

These are some friends' kids and some of our neighbors. They came to my house for our annual Kids' Easter Party. Some American friends from GA helped Lady give the parties. These children listen while Lady tells the Easter Story. If we don't tell them, how will they know?  

My little friend Jeremiah loves to hunt eggs! He found a lot of eggs with candy inside!  

Outside, the children had fun with the egg race, and the Easter egg hunt. I went on my own hunt and found the dog treats one of the visitors had brought for me. By the time Lady returned I had pulled the tablecloth enough to topple my basket from the table and had eaten every treat.  

At the Children's Easter Party, one of the visitors from GA helped the children decorate eggs. Our house was full of kids doing different activities. Some were making baskets, some decorated cookies, but all listened intently to lady tell the Easter Story. I love story time, and I was still and quiet so the children and their parents could listen to Lady explain the meaning of Easter. Mostly, I retreated underneath the coffee table so I wouldn't get stepped on. 

On Easter morning, some of Lady's students went with the American visitors to the local church service. This was their first time. They had dual language Bibles to read and try to understand the message of Easter. I was allowed to go. 

At the end of the English Corner Easter Party, the students sang the American visitors and Lady a traditional Chinese song. The Americans sang "Holy One of Israel" in English and Chinese, and "Christ the Lord is Risen Today." I didn't sing. 

I'm home from my two-week vacation! I am glad to be back in my own bed. Lady brought me my favorite treats and a new bone to destroy! The whale shark is hers. Her cousin bought it for her at the Georgia Aquarium. I'm not allowed to chew it. Lady had a good vacation, too! Her younger brother got married. She was surprised at how fat I am! Almost all the dog food she sent came back. You think I am going to eat that stuff when they will give me meat and rice? No way! But Lady worries I won't get my needed vitamins and minerals, so it's back to the Pedigree bowl for me! I must admit, I did climb the stairs a bit slower tonight! I am so glad to be back in my own home, but I did have a good time with Belle, and then Betty and Judy. They time-shared me. They told Lady I had been a good boy! 

The hostess is preparing the black tea in a special way. All the foreigners are looking on with interest. Joe translates and explains what is going on. They watch as the hostess carefully pours hot water over all the cups, then rinses the tea. She strains the tea into the small pitcher, then pours it into the small cups. The humans must smell the tea, then sip it three times. The get used to the temperature, then let their taste buds savour the flavor, and finish the cup with full enjoyment. The cups are just too tiny for me! My tongue doesn't fit! After all, I am just a little dog!

For English Corner tonight, we treated our American visitors to a traditional tea ceremony. Personally, I don't touch the stuff. I just keep an eye out for a cute little black female who lives here. I can't imagine why, but she does not seem to like me. Maybe she is just playing hard to get. She keeps coming by to see me then growls and runs away. What's up with that?  

See? I am hard at work keeping up with my blog. Okay, my nails get in the way and Lady has to help me.  

The choir sang on this Palm Sunday in the local TSPM church. This is a very special day! 

This old man was the first in line to be baptized. A careful record is kept of every person baptized in the Three Self Patriotic Movement Church (TSPM). What are the three selfs? Self-governing, self-supporting, and self-propagating. The pastor is trained at one of 18 seminaries run by the Chinese Christian Council under the central government's authority. Protestant Christianity is one of the five recognized religions in China. There is only one church n my city, and very few in the countryside. I didn't get to go. Four-year-olds have to go to the children's room, so Lady doesn't take me. After all, I am just a little dog, and I can't read the hymn book!

Many humans were waiting for their turn to be baptized. They had taken a class to prepare for this day. The pastor shared some funny stories about the answers they gave to the questions he asked them. He asked, "When is Jesus coming back?" One man replied, "Saturday or Sunday." This shows why the classes are important. ABout 100 were baptized this morning.